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A Personal Review of a Summit on Collective Trauma
'Trauma' is a big word and deserves to be normalized in our everyday language as it is more prevalent in our lives than we think. Collective trauma specifically was the theme of an 8-day online summit, that included excellent speakers, organised by Thomas Huebl....
The World Needs Empowered Women Who Love Men
The ‘Almost' Impossible Dialogue Between Us — Women and Men This article seeks to initiate a dialogue between us, men and women. One, in which each side takes responsibility for its part of the hardship and opens an understanding heart for the other. Its purpose is...
To Love Truth, We Must Acknowledge Light and Darkness Within
Speaking My Truth Doesn’t Change a Thing, But It Does Create Connection With a little painful smile at the age of 52, I can say that I’m a person who’s often impatient and dissatisfied. Characteristics have developed through the course of my life. Those close to me...
When Innocence and Selflessness in Relationships Tell a Bigger Story – Video
In love, we take on all kinds of roles. Being innocent and selfless are powerful roles that carry manipulative traits and create unconscious dynamics in the relationship. This video describes these roles while showing ways of becoming aware of their consequences. It...
Finding clarity and strength during breakups – Video
Relationships can leave us feeling stuck or as if we have lost ourselves. We may sense that a separation is close. This video walks you through some of the dynamics that move us closer to the tipping point and shows ways of understanding what's really happening.
Commitment Needs More Than Loyalty – Video
A fresh look at what commitment and loyalty can mean to us. The video looks at our conditioning around commitment and offers some additional perspectives of the dynamic between the two.
Missed vulnerability: When we’re hiding behind morality and pain
Vulnerability is about being honest, and this includes embracing our dark side. No matter whether we find ourselves on the conservative spectrum or liberal, we often abuse morals and ideals in order to avoid our own shadow. In this turbulent ‘Trump’ era where values...
What if we cannot actively ‘pursue’ or ‘do’ forgiveness?
The holes in our heart keep us from forgiveness Lately, the issue of forgiveness keeps coming back into my mind. I’m trying to figure out questions like, “How do I forgive myself for whom I am and for the mistakes I’ve made, or forgive others for the different ways...
How can we as MEN still remain relevant?
Men’s discrimination against women is rooted in the depth of our consciousness I am a man who had a mixed upbringing in post war Germany. I grew up in what people would call a modern, open and fairly liberal environment, with some limiting traditional, cultural, and...
Keep your eyes open when falling in love
Falling in love is an amazing and important experience. It consumes us and that's exactly the feeling we are looking for; to merge back into oneness with another person and to feel that nothing else matters. Those moments of connection that bring meaning into our...